How I found purpose in my family’s regret. – part 3

Our Plan for the Future.

Having found our shared purpose, as well as our shared skepticism. As mentioned in the previous two parts (If you haven’t read part 1 yet, click here. If you just missed part 2, then click here). We have to have a plan in place. A plan to feed our dream not our doubt.

Yung Pueblo Quote, "I cannot make you happy, but I can commit to support you in the creation of your own Happiness."

It’s going to be through watching us, as we go through our Journey. And holding us accountable, when needed, that we will know that we have fulfilled our shared purpose and ambition.

The 12 Steps to identify the Principles and define Our Journey in this unified life’s purpose.

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How I found purpose in my family’s regret. – part 2

Finding our “Happy Places”

Wall plaque with the Beach is my Happy Place
The Beach is my wife’s Happy Place. 🙂

Being focused on finding our, “Happy Place” is how we overcome our regret and depression mentioned in part 1(If you haven’t read part 1 yet, click here). Instead of dwelling on our daily grind, we’ve begun to look towards our shared goals.

So here is how our future together looks. We find a nice 3 to 4 bedroom house or condo in Port Aransas, TX. Big enough for a family vacation but small enough to make it easily rentable.

Will name it my wife’s “Happy Place”.

It will have to have a balcony off the Master bedroom with a direct view of the gulf. So that we will be able to hear the waves crash against the sand, as we sleep. This is a must.

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How I found purpose in my family’s regret. – part 1

The kids’ had regret that we had to return home. And so did I.

Wooden plaque with images of a sand dollar, a star fish, and a seashell. With the word Beach, simple words of regret.
“Our memories of the ocean will linger on, long after our footprints in the sand are gone.”

My family and I just came back from a wonderful trip for our 11th anniversary. My wife always wanted a beach wedding. The best I could do when we first got married, was a park overlooking a small local lake.

Last year, for our 10th anniversary, I surprised her with a full beach wedding/vow renewal. I managed to find a magnificent beach house, big enough for her to have family stay with us. The master bedroom had a balcony which looked directly out to the ocean.

My wife grew up visiting the beach at Port Aransas, TX with her mom and stepdad. She absolutely loves the beach. And like her mom, calls Port A her ‘Happy Place’.

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